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I'll be the big 2-9 on March 11, 2009...I still don't feel like I've reached that Grown Woman Status...no matter what perfume I try...what hairstyle I rock...what clothes or stilletos I wear...GWS is slightly elusive, but I'm trying to enjoy the journey. The vehicle of choice to this destination is writing...writing to dig deeper and peel back layers of myself. When I'm not excavating (lol), I love going to concerts, chilling in the bookstore, being a So-CHI-Lite (a fly Chicago chick, lol), hanging with my peoples and doing a million and one other things that I probably shouldn't be doing b/c I should be focusing on writing. smile

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"Live life on your own path. Everybody's got something different; you can't keep up with all those people, so you better keep up with yourself." --Author Unknown

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soflyFall09'Music

Lady Love, Latoya Luckett
The Blueprint 3, Jay-Z
Epihany, Chrisette Michelle
In a Perfect World, Keri Hilson
New Amerykah Part 1, Erykah Badu
Afrodisiac, Brandy
The Art of Love & War, Angie Stone
AndJustforus, Little Brother
Black on Both Sides, Mos Def
Greatest Hits, Tony! Toni! Tone!
Kind of Blue, Miles Davis
Livin' The Luxury Brown, Mint Condition
The Low End Theory, A Tribe Call Quest

soflyFall09'Literati

Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit, Jeanette Winterson
Becoming Light, Erica Jong
The No.1 Ladies' Detective Agency, Alexander McCall Smith
Praisesong for the Widow, Paule Marshall
The Sanctified Church, Zora Neale Hurston
Insight and Artistry in African Divination, Ed. by John Pemberton III
Playing in The Dark, Toni Morrison
A Woman's Place, Marita Golden
Petals on The Wind, V.C. Andrews
A Piece of Cupcake, Cupcake Brown

soflyFall09'Couture

"The sofly.fashionable chic on a budget"

~Throw-back to the 80's~

Nails:

Colors that are in: Black, Brown, Maroon, Classic Red, and your favorite!

Clothes:

Fall Sweaters (Black, Red, Brown, Blue, Purple),

Funky Hats (try to be extra sassy with your picks)

Skirts (any kind that are long + short with tights or leggies)

Scarves (vintage prints, and throwbacks form the 80's)

Shoes:

Low/High cut boots (leather only!) with a high-heel preferably

Hair:

Always use a silk or satin scarf/sleep on a satin pillowcase at night.

Trim your ends regularly--and wash your hair + condition!

Use cool water as a final rinse--gives it an extra shine.

Eye Color:

Bold colors are in style this season--extra bold if you can take it that far.

If you are in to eyelashes, get them out ladies and strut blink as many times as you like!

Great colors: gold, green, dark-light brown, metallic, black, grey, purple

Purses:

Sophisticated BIG bags--Any print will do with that great outfit you have created.

For the evening small purses are always essential.

Scents:

Happy, by Clinique

Notorious, by Ralph Lauren

J'Adore, by Dior

Black Cashmere, by DKNY

soflyInspireLinks

http://www.happier.com
http://www.ilifecoach.com
http://www.linkedin.com

soflyremedy 09'

so.flyQuote 09'

"I don't have grey in my beard in real life!!! I'm all down with being in my 30's but daaaaaaaamn!!!! This is some Benjamin Button's s**t!". --Kanye West